A woman who has been married three times, had children, and gotten divorced from all three husbands has explained why she’d rather be a single mother.
In the short video posted by the single mother, she outlined three reasons she opted for a divorce from her husbands.
She said that if she had to be a married single mother, that is someone who despite being married has to do everything by themselves from paying bills, to taking care of the kids etc, she would rather just be a single mother.
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Then she pointed out that she wouldn’t stay in a marriage deficient of love just to say “I have been married for 30 or 40 years”.
Marriage didn’t let me focus on my kids
Finally, she commented that parenting with a broken heart is the hardest thing she ever had to do because it didn’t allow her invest her full attention on her kids because of her emotional tormoil.
Some comments from netizens:
Chila Nwokolo: “After your first marriage failed you should have properly worked on yourself.”
Emmanuel Duru: “All she is saying is that Life hard for her so she will still marry again but this time around it will be a rich man.”
Valentinechinaza Lambert: “You are I don’t know wrong with men This days are just lazy looking for women to carry this problem hmm. If you don’t marry poor men wahala if marry them biggest wahala. Me I don’t care what people say because if I die now it’s only me that God will judge i rather have kids and care of them than marrying them.”
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Pastor Ayo Oritsejafor: Pastors who have divorced their spouses in Nigeria
Meanwhile, many men of God have left their marriages, in variance to the words preached to their followers.
IkejaBird takes a look at pastors in Nigeria who divorced their spouses or vice-versa.
Pastor Ayo Oritsejafor
After the death of his first wife, Stella Oritsejafor in 1996 due to health complications, the former CAN chairman, and senior pastor of Word of Life Bible Church, Pastor Ayo Oritsejafor married another, Mrs Helen Oritsejafor.
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