A mother shared her ordeal after finding out that her husband impregnated their daughter and how she navigated it.
The woman identified as Ntakwinja Kakumba from Congo shared that she found out her daughter was pregnant with her husband and was distraught.
In the interview by Afrimax, her daughter, Tumaini Cihonzi narrated how she came to be pregnant by her father.
She said that she had come back from school one day and her father requested that she sleep with him
Upon refusal, her father threatened to never pay her school fees or provide her with any of her needs.
Filled with fear, she gave in to her father’s request and after some months, she found out she was pregnant.
Her father advised her never to tell anyone who got her pregnant, including her mother.
Tumaini followed her father’s advice and even after her tummy began to protrude, she refused to tell her mother who impregnated her.
“I asked her to tell me who impregnated her but she refused to tell me his name. I insisted so much but she always refused. I decided to simply take care of her and I thought that when she is ready, she will tell me who had impregnated her,” Ntakwinja said.
Her mother was so patient, so she told the truth
Ntakwinja was very patient with her and nursed her daughter till full term even if she did not know who put her in the family’s way.
When Tumaini’s date for delivery came, her mother asked once again who the father of her child was.
Tumaini was convicted since her mother had been with her throughout and was especially caring.
She disclosed to her mother that it was her father who put her in the family way.
The mother was distraught and when her husband, Cihonzi Misagwe Ezekiel came home, she confronted him with the allegations.
We both asked for forgiveness
Immediately, both father and daughter asked for forgiveness from Ntakwinja and she forgave them.
Ezekiel bears the burden of providing for all of them financially.
Although Ezekiel still proposes that his daughter sleep with him again, Tumaini has learnt from her mother’s advice to resist the temptations.
Ntakwinja advised young ladies to take note of their dressing even around their father’s and brothers to ensure that such problems don’t erupt.
She also encouraged mothers who have found themselves in such situations to have peace and let it go.
Islamic Teacher Impregnated Student, Defiles Many others in Kano
Meanwhile, a report has been made public over an Islamic teacher who impregnated his student in Kano on Thursday.
According to Dailytrust, Kano State Hisbah Board has invited the unnamed teacher following a complaint that he had been assaulting his students sexually.
It was alleged that the school which is located in Kano is owned by a well known cleric whose name has been withheld.