A Nigerian pastor has shaken the internet after she advised married women to not love their husbands but only submit and honour him.
In a TikTok video posted by @officialdrijeoma, the Nigerian prophetess, she asserted that love from women to their husbands is wrong.
According to her, a man does not need love from his wife but only needs submission and honour, she advised ladies who are yet to marry to tie the knot with someone they can submit to or honour rather than a man they love.
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“When a woman is saying “I love my husband”, it’s an error, you are not supposed to love your husband, the Bible did not tell you to love your husband, ‘I can not marry him because I don’t love him, no it’s not your duty to love him”
“It is his duty to love you if the man says “I can’t marry her because I don’t love her”, then it’s a problem, you do not have a right to love him, you do not need to love him, What you should marry is a man you can submit to, a man you can honour, not a man you love, it’s the man that will love you,”
“It’s the love that a man shows a woman that will make her submit, if you are looking for a husband look for a man you can submit to not a man you can love, he will be slapping you blue and black if you don’t submit, men are in need of honour, men don’t need love, what are you loving them for, Men need honour, respect and reverence,” she concluded.
Reactions: I submit and respect what I love
The video garnered a lot of social media users attention. While some stated that she had a point, others were not in support of her words. See some comments below;
@Victor: How can you submit to someone you don’t love?
@Dtec: So when they ask you “Do you love your husband” say “no, I just submit to him”
@Julmark: I submit and respect what I love madam.
@godswillagbaraks7: only the wise will understand that she speaks pure fact..
@shasha: when you have love in you their is nothing you can not do for him even when that money is not their what will still keep you around is still that love
@Philips: confused generation, love goes with respect simple, u hardly respect a man you don’t love
@josephchikwe: Bitter truth 👍
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Captured with a baby carrier with her kid in it, she danced and asserted that a lady can make every mistake in life unknowingly.