The Reality TV Star Bamike Olawunmi popularly known as Bam Bam, has revealed on Monday that she was sexually abused by her nanny.
In a video that was posted on her Instagram handle, Bambam also disclosed that she was a victim of rape.
The Reality TV Star stated that the sexual abuse happened continuously between the ages of 2 to 8 and that the nanny warned her not to tell her parents about it.
“She used my fist to masturbate and forced me to suck her breast while at it, I have also been raped a few times as a young girl, I wasn’t ready to have sex with some of the guys I dated in the past, so they forced themselves on me. Look, sex MUST be consensual even in marriage! Sex must be consensual at all times! Don’t manipulate a mind into it! Not to talk of children?!
“Hurt and mentally sick people hurt other people! That nanny was clearly abused or possessed and felt it was okay to do all she did to me! We have sick people making laws to permit their sick orientations! Make it stop!” she said.
Projecting that her revelation maybe taken out of context, she said those who engage in such spinning are the cause of the problem.
“I know some vile mouths and sick-hearted people would say rubbish and make unrelated comments! Some may spin this out of context, and some may feel I should have been quiet, Y’all are the major cause of the problem in this world, abused people are committing suicide and some are abusing other people. I owe nobody any explanation! I’m doing my bit, if you care, let’s go,” she said.
“For the ones with the fear of God, let’s come together and build a community to protect each other and our children from these predators! Let’s do our bit to contribute to healing this dark world, let’s do real kingdom work,” she added.
In the same breath, Bambam also used the moment to address the public about why it is important for eligible Nigerians to collect their Permanent Voters Card (PVC) and vote for the right candidate.
“Get your PVC and vote for the person that you know will not be molesting your child behind your back because they think it is okay. We need rehabilitation centres for victims, we need therapists, we need a proper healing system even for those that are married but acting like everything is okay but are not okay,” she said.