A Nigerian man in a bid to help men not to grumble gave them a piece of advice concerning marriage.
Seeing that he was coming out from a similar situation, he warned them not to grumble after the deed had been done.
He also added that whatever character that lady exhibited during their dating period, she was going to do the same when they got married.
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He also went on to say that the people she had around her would influence her character.
“Dear men, stop grumbling about how tough marriage is for men. It’s not anyone’s fault that you made a poor choice. Trust me, I’ve been there too. If she’s violent when you were dating, she won’t change in marriage. If she was demanding and high-maintenance during dating days, don’t be shocked if she’s the same in marriage.”
Don’t grumble, you made the choice
He further added that it wasn’t anyone’s fault that the decision was made but the decision man’s fault.
He warned men strongly to learn how to identify red flags.
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The original design of marriage – Myths of marriage
Meanwhile, everyone talks about a better half who will bring happiness and light into their lives. However, they do not evaluate the cost of such a commitment, falling victim to common marriage myths.
As humans, we are wired to crave the company of others and desire the attention of at least one special person to fill the natural void embedded in our souls.
One of the ways we do this is to delve into the deep commitment we call ‘Marriage’.
marriage.
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