On social media, Obianuju, a pharmacist advised women considering getting married to divorced men, which piqued the curiosity of online users.
In a blog post she wrote on Thursday, August 3, she recommended they contact their prospective partner’s ex-wife to find out the specifics of their divorce.
She explained to them why their marriage had broken down and provided them wise counsel: exercise caution and thoroughly weigh your options prior to being married to the man.
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The pharmacist advised women in a tweet saying,
“Nigerian women, Before you marry a divorced man, abeg reach out to his ex-wife and have deep conversations to find out what led to divorce. Then apply wisdom, and count the cost”.
Her tweet received a range of responses on social media, with some thinking the advice went both ways and others disagreed.
@Mia_ghe096 wrote, “To think she only mentioned man when it applies to both men and women shows she lacks wisdom”
@xmackbaba wrote, “Nonsense write up. So you expect the ex wife to agree that she was the reason for the divorce abi.”
@garry_tee wrote, “A man can be cruel to A and be a slave to B. Don’t ask me, it’s a reality.”
@tenovartonautos wrote, “This is applicable only when the person you’re going to ask will agree to be honest. Most of the time, people don’t ever take responsibility for failed relationships, friendships, or marriages. How many people will say “I messed up”? You’ll ask and you’ll hear how much of a bad person the ex is u til you come in contact with the said ex and experience something totally different. If you love someone enough, find out for yourself who they are while dating or courting. Some people treat people according to what they deserve which is not a true definition of their personality.”
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“You should only date older men for their money” – Lady advises women in their 20s
Meanwhile, a lady has caused a buzz in the social space after she advised ladies in their 20s to go ahead and date older men but be wise about it.
In a TikTok video, the young lady with the username @bestienextdoor stated that if a lady decides to be in a relationship with an older man then she has to invest in her future.
According to her, the men’s usefulness in her life should be for financial purposes, she added that they should not be fooled by falling in love with their personality or other things.
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